We always address why we think men cheat but, lets shed some light on why women Cheat? What are the men that they cheat with referred to? The Other men? Are husbands as forgiving as wives when they find out hubby is cheating? Please share personal experiences if you have any. I'd like to know.
When I was married I never cheated on my habitual cheating husband.
Simply, I cheated because my husband could not meet my sexual needs. In addition, in today's society women have the upper hand and have more opportunities to cheat. Men have fallen behind... Also, I believe it can be difficult for 1 man to consistently meet a woman's needs while men can be satisfied with a flick of the wrist. Lastly, women to day outgrow their husbands in many cases. In my case, I was more successful and kept myself in much better shape while he was stagnant in his job making less than me and not taking care of himself. We were not equally matched and I made a decision to get a man that has the ability to please me more. While I made the decision the wrong way (cheating which resulted in alot of guilt) it was right for me. Even now though,he still wants me back...so go figure?
Old news: J E makes a great point. It falls down to morals really and it can go both ways (men and women.) We make the decision to cheat within that instant but can't make the decision to break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend before doing so? Ironic isn 't it.
this is scary i will never get married
thats how much u take ur spouse for granted. and kudos to ur husband for wanting some1 like u back!
Women who cheat do it because they either have forgotten the promises they made when they got married or they don't care. It seems most women place a high value on spontaneity, drama, and excitement. For some reason many women like knowing that other men still want them (since they're married they should only be concerned about being attractive to the person they're married to). A person's morals are a deeply ingrained part of who they are. I think there is definitely a type of person who cheats and a type who would never cheat, and I would hope a person would know what type they're with before marrying them. To answer the other part of the question, cheating why do married women cheatis totally unforgivable and would be immediate grounds for divorce. It is absolutely the worst kind of betrayal.
I can feel pretty miserable with my husband sometimes. I even joke with him about having a boyfriend. He is gone every other week. HOme for week, gone for a week, sometimes for two weeks. I stay home 24/7 with the kids so it would be pretty easy for me to have an affair if I wanted to. But no matter how unhappy I feel at times I could never do such a thing.
I guess I'd compare it to drug use. Some people turn to drugs or alcohol when they are unhappy. They think it makes the problem go away. Some people commit adultery 'cause it makes them feel better. In both situations no one has taken the time to solve the problem.
Women cheat for different reasons. Some cheat because they've lost an emotional attachment from their husbands. Others actually cheat for sexual reasons. However, let me be clear on this issue. Cheating is completely wrong and there is no valid excuse. A person can whine and cry about how they made a mistake and ask you to take them back but I still say B.S.
I have been cheated on by ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife. I tried to forgive the first time I was cheated on but could not handle the thoughts going through my head. From that point on, I had a zero-tolerance policy for infidelity. I now keep things simple for relationships. If we have a problem, lets talk about it and work it out or go our separate ways.
I don't feel I should have to forgive a woman that cheats because I've never cheated and never will. Shouldn't I hold any woman I'm with to the same standard?
I cheated because i was not in love with my spouse..you don't think about your children or anything when you're doing it...it's totally a selfish ,terrible thing i did , i admit that...and sometimes you can't wait 2 yrs for a divorce to be final...at first he was forgiving..but now,...he wants me out...i deserve it.
I thought about cheating when our realtionship was really bad. But I didnt. He did.
I think women cheat because they are in need of someone to talk to them, hold them, and to make them feel special.
Married women cheat because they are very horny and like drama. Some women like to live a troublesome life.
..i think women cheat bc of something missing emotionally. or bc the 'other man' has more money. i dont know. either way its no good.
why do married women cheat
you dont want to be with someone.
then leave!
I do not know. They must be really horny or else they need to reach out in some way or find a man who has qualities that are unlike their spouse.
ask my ex wife
Married men usually do not forgive the wife of an affair. Women are more likely to do so of a husband. These are statistically speaking anyway. Not sure of the last time the numbers were run.
Now, I can tell you why I think women cheat. These are merely my opinions, so take them as you will.
Women marry a man then decide to change him or fix him. She gets mad when he will not go along or do or be what she tells him to be. Women seem to think they will fix a man and then get upset when they cant make him fall in line. So they start to find fault or consider him less a man or lose respect for him.
Women have most of the advantages in situations and they know it. They can play the system, men and everything else. Women can usually get by with just about anything and they know that too, so they try.
Women have the ability to convince themselves of anything. No matter what it usually is, a women can convince herself of whatever suits her purpose on the matter. She can talk herself into or out of anything based on emotions and then find a way to convince herself that she is not doing wrong, instead she see's herself as the victim who is made to do whatever it is. Add in the fact that women seem to hang together and with like minded women and that only adds to the trouble.
Women in my view do not use logic except when being devious. Instead, they are emotional based beings. And emotions can lead you into any number of problems. Women also have the ability to overlook being wrong or tell themselves they are not wrong no matter what.
Women always like to think that they are so much better then men. They like to contend that men are merely dogs while women are angels who are forced or tricked into whatever it is they do which is wrong. No matter what happens, women usually will not admit wrong or even see that they are. They will instead shift that blame to a man as much as possible.
Visit the site www.nomarriage.com It will enlighten you to a degree, if you allow it to do so.
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