My friend's boyfriend wrote her a long break-up letter and sent it via email. When he talked to her later on that night, he was shocked she didn't 'get his letter'. He explained what he had done, she checked her email and nothing was there. He checked his sent box and it never 'sent'. He expressed great relief having felt like a total mess the entire day, not knowing if he would have regret his decision.
They put it behind them, thinking it was a "sign" of sorts that the email never went through. And that they should still be together. They've been together for 3 or more years. Oh and they're in a long distance relationship, they've met several times and just have their share of problems. Both are feeling the strain of the distance.
Anyhow, She wants to read the letter he wrote that never went through. Because they are having those problems yet again and both feel like the relationship is near it's end. She wants to see what he wrote in this '4 page letter'. Yet she is afraid to read it and asked me if she should. I honestly don't know what to tell her.
What if she reads it and it's something she's not expecting or worse? What should she do? What would you do or tell your friend in this situation??
i would tell my friend to read it if she really wanted to know. but i would express to her it may be something unpleasant in there. i would also suggest to her to break the relationship and still remain frienbreak up letters boyfriendds with this person. it's hard to be there for someone when there not there physically, you know what i mean? just comfort her and do the best you can do as a friend. that's all any body can do.
maybe have him send you the message and you read it first and if you think it is okthen let her read it..
I would tell her that i will be there for her whatever that letter said. I will tell her to read it and it will help there relationship. Good luck wit ur friend her boyfriend
I wouldn't do it. What good would it do? It's a 3 year old letter, and it doesn't do much good to say that they could have broken up then, because they didn't. The e-mail won't solve anything, if anything it sounds like it might cause more problems for them.
if its a 4 page letter its gonna be a lot of reading things she is not gonna want to hear. but if they are getting ready to break up then she should read it. it would kill me to not know what it says. i say read it.
Why don't you read it first, if that is ok, and then see if you think it is ok give it to her to read.
I'd tell her to leave it. This isn't her e-mail, for one, and she has no right to look at it unless it's in her inbox. And two, it's old. The past is meant to be learned from, not dwelled upon.
Tell her to leave it. This is something that happened in the past.
i wouldn't want to read it.
its a part of the past
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If you were a true friend then you would show it to her. She asked break up letters boyfriendfor the note so she should be prepared for it.
I'd ask him about it. I'd want to see what I'd do wrong and what my faults are. Them discussing this might make there relationship stronger by knowing what they don't like about eachother and how they could fix it.
I would tell my friend that she should move on. Her boyfrind is stupid for emailing a break up letter. It shows that he is a wimp and he is a coward for not facing up to her. Tell your friend that she deserves better.
I would tell her that there is no use in reading it. What he wrote then has no doubt been SAID by him since then, so there is no need. Also, it's healthier to just try to face the current problems head on and get them behind you. No use in wallowing in the past.
How would she read this letter if it never went through? If she has to pry into his email, then no she shouldn't. If he has sent it, then it would be ok to read.
if she wants to read it and know what the guy really thinks of her, then let her. but the thing is that she also needs to understand that the truth hurts. if he feels a certain way and she doesnt like it, theres nothing she can do about it. all im sating is let her be ready to read it before bad things happen. or she can just drop it and pretend nothing happened
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