My friend's boyfriend wrote her a long break-up letter and sent it via email. When he talked to her later on that night, he was shocked she didn't 'get his letter'. He explained what he had done, she checked her email and nothing was there. He checked his sent box and it never 'sent'. He expressed great relief having felt like a total mess the entire day, not knowing if he would have regret his decision.
They put it behind them, thinking it was a "sign" of sorts that the email never went through. And that they should still be together. They've been together for 3 or more years. Oh and they're in a long distance relationship, they've met several times and just have their share of problems. Both are feeling the strain of the distance.
Anyhow, She wants to read the letter he wrote that never went through. Because they are having those problems yet again and both feel like the relationship is near it's end. She wants to see what he wrote in this '4 page letter'. Yet she is afraid to read it and asked me if she should. I honestly don't know what to tell her.
What if she reads it and it's something she's not expecting or worse? What should she do? What would you do or tell your friend in this situation??
i would tell my friend to read it if she really wanted to know. but i would express to her it may be something unpleasant in there. i would also suggest to her to break the relationship and still remain frienbreak up letters boyfriendds with this person. it's hard to be there for someone when there not there physically, you know what i mean? just comfort her and do the best you can do as a friend. that's all any body can do.
maybe have him send you the message and you read it first and if you think it is okthen let her read it..
I would tell her that i will be there for her whatever that letter said. I will tell her to read it and it will help there relationship. Good luck wit ur friend her boyfriend
I wouldn't do it. What good would it do? It's a 3 year old letter, and it doesn't do much good to say that they could have broken up then, because they didn't. The e-mail won't solve anything, if anything it sounds like it might cause more problems for them.
if its a 4 page letter its gonna be a lot of reading things she is not gonna want to hear. but if they are getting ready to break up then she should read it. it would kill me to not know what it says. i say read it.
Why don't you read it first, if that is ok, and then see if you think it is ok give it to her to read.
I'd tell her to leave it. This isn't her e-mail, for one, and she has no right to look at it unless it's in her inbox. And two, it's old. The past is meant to be learned from, not dwelled upon.
Tell her to leave it. This is something that happened in the past.
i wouldn't want to read it.
its a part of the past
answer mine?
If you were a true friend then you would show it to her. She asked break up letters boyfriendfor the note so she should be prepared for it.
I'd ask him about it. I'd want to see what I'd do wrong and what my faults are. Them discussing this might make there relationship stronger by knowing what they don't like about eachother and how they could fix it.
I would tell my friend that she should move on. Her boyfrind is stupid for emailing a break up letter. It shows that he is a wimp and he is a coward for not facing up to her. Tell your friend that she deserves better.
I would tell her that there is no use in reading it. What he wrote then has no doubt been SAID by him since then, so there is no need. Also, it's healthier to just try to face the current problems head on and get them behind you. No use in wallowing in the past.
How would she read this letter if it never went through? If she has to pry into his email, then no she shouldn't. If he has sent it, then it would be ok to read.
if she wants to read it and know what the guy really thinks of her, then let her. but the thing is that she also needs to understand that the truth hurts. if he feels a certain way and she doesnt like it, theres nothing she can do about it. all im sating is let her be ready to read it before bad things happen. or she can just drop it and pretend nothing happened
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
what can i doWhat can I do to get rid of my stretch marks?
I have stretch marks on my inner thighs, on the side of where my butt and leg meewhat can i dot and on my hips. They're really embarrassing, what can I do or use to get rid ofwhat can i do them?
Joint the club, just let them be and they slowly become less noticeable.
Joint the club, just let them be and they slowly become less noticeable.
vegetarian people in the worldWhat is the botanicaL WORD FOR VEGEGATBLE AND A VEGETARIAN AND CITY FOR VEGETARIAN PEOPLE IN THE WORLD?
I'm going to first assume you're serious.
There is no botanical word for "vegetable"...there are separate botanical words for each vegetable depending on the "family" it's in.
There is also no botanical word for a vegetarian. Botanical names are applied to plants, not people. Now if you're looking for the proper term for an animal which only eats plants that would be "vegetarian people in the worldherbivore".
There is also no city that I'm aware of that consists only of vegetarians, and caters only to vegetarians.
There are LOTS of cities which have decent vegetarian restaurants. If worse comes to worse, you can always do well with an Italian restaurant....lots of meatless dishes. If you want to go vegan...Italian may not be your best choice. vegetarian people in the world
Vegan are the people who eat no meat, Latin word is vegetare, and most likely started in India
Each vegetable has it own botanical name. There is more then 100 city in India that consist only vegetarians and caters only to vegetarians. Gujarat state has 98% vegetarian people. Gujarat’s population is larger then Australia. My town was one the vegetarian in india.
There is no botanical word for "vegetable"...there are separate botanical words for each vegetable depending on the "family" it's in.
There is also no botanical word for a vegetarian. Botanical names are applied to plants, not people. Now if you're looking for the proper term for an animal which only eats plants that would be "vegetarian people in the worldherbivore".
There is also no city that I'm aware of that consists only of vegetarians, and caters only to vegetarians.
There are LOTS of cities which have decent vegetarian restaurants. If worse comes to worse, you can always do well with an Italian restaurant....lots of meatless dishes. If you want to go vegan...Italian may not be your best choice. vegetarian people in the world
Vegan are the people who eat no meat, Latin word is vegetare, and most likely started in India
Each vegetable has it own botanical name. There is more then 100 city in India that consist only vegetarians and caters only to vegetarians. Gujarat state has 98% vegetarian people. Gujarat’s population is larger then Australia. My town was one the vegetarian in india.
how do i download huluHow do you download videos off Hulu?
^ I cant find how to download Hulu videos and No programs i've tried have let me download so
Hulu grabber
Hulu video downloader Are bad
And i don't want a stupid trial thing either Any one downlhow do i download huluoad videos from hulu? Those are the people i wanna hear from. Thanks.
RipTiger is an awesome program that allows you to download videos from Hulu.com (as well as youtube, etc.). But not only download, how do i download huluit helps me to convert videos so I can share it with my friends. RipTiger can copy all your downloaded videos to iPod and any other portable player!
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Hulu grabber
Hulu video downloader Are bad
And i don't want a stupid trial thing either Any one downlhow do i download huluoad videos from hulu? Those are the people i wanna hear from. Thanks.
RipTiger is an awesome program that allows you to download videos from Hulu.com (as well as youtube, etc.). But not only download, how do i download huluit helps me to convert videos so I can share it with my friends. RipTiger can copy all your downloaded videos to iPod and any other portable player!
Find it here:
This Website Might Help.
i love you more thanWhat in your life has caused you to doubt that humans love more than they hate?
I was reading The Scarlet Letter and became curious about this...
The passage that I read was,
"It is to the credit of the human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates."
Is there any situation in life that would make you doubt this quote?
You might hate too after reading what I just read before answering here:
What about War, Murder, Rape? Some people are just damn bad
Unfortunently no
I have never believed it. Humans unless they stumble upon a more interesting emotion tend towards disinterest more often than love or hate combined.
No.. I don't doubt it at all. That's statement with as much power behind it as saying "The sky is blue".
If humans hated more than they loved this world would be far more corrupt than it is. Big words don't necessarily mean big meaning. It's poetic enough, sure; but there's nothing fascinating behind it. I'm not talking bad about the book either, I think it's excellent.. I just have a hard time appreciating something when down to it's true definition it's taught me nothing.
everything starting with my sadistical ex girlfriend. they lead to believe they really love you then blam there out with another guy! i wish it was like in the 1800's when was severe punishment for that kind of behaviour. well i least i learned a good lesson don't trust anyone! :op
Yes; thati love you more than would be war.
Well, we can easily invalidate this quote using logic. If I can show you any other human characteristic that, when brought into play, causes humans not to love more readily than they hate, then the quote is invalid. It makes a singular exception for selfishness, which may not be enough.
Probably, the quote would be more difficult to invalidate if we (charitably) throw in every human vice we can think of along with selfishness, and THEN try to think of a way to doubt it:
"It is to the credit of the human nature that, except where its many vices are brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates." (modified by me to indicate a more modern awareness)
This is almost a tautology or truism by itself: what we're saying is that, if we throw out all our vices, we're all snuggly. WELL OF COURSE! That's pretty self-evident: the very notion of "our vices" is to capture the things that make us act in a blameworthy manner. Without them, we would have nothing but our essentially good traits.
Of course, there is (or was) a debate, grounded in religious belief at the time, as to whether the human spirit is inherently good or inherently evil. Puritans believed it was inherently evil, and we had to make a conscious effort to try and fight back that evil. So to get rid of our vices, for a Puritan, would be like getting rid of our very essence.
On the other hai love you more thannd, many popular modern views, both theistic and atheistic, grant humanity an inherently good nature, with a few vices thrown in to make life challenging. If you follow that school of thought, then our vices could potentially be removed, in whole or in part, if we take the proper measures. Then we would have no basis for hate.
In the end, I think I have to disagree with the way the quote is postured: it is trying to make it sound like the fact that humans have both virtues and vices is a credit to us, when in fact, I think most would agree that the very fact we have to acknowledge our vices implies something blameworthy about us, rather than something praiseworthy.
I suppose it's still love but many are willing to AV儿劣* each other over, and do readily, for the love of money. But I think that's where the selfishness part of the quote denies this.
The quote is basically saying humans love more than they hate and all bad deeds are caused by selfishness. So perhaps you could make a case that the only exception is mental illness. The actions of the mentally ill can't always be judged by the standards that govern the rest of us. While crimes committed by the insane can be considered unsavory, they themselves take no moral blame. But would someone free from morality be fully human?
The passage that I read was,
"It is to the credit of the human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates."
Is there any situation in life that would make you doubt this quote?
You might hate too after reading what I just read before answering here:
What about War, Murder, Rape? Some people are just damn bad
Unfortunently no
I have never believed it. Humans unless they stumble upon a more interesting emotion tend towards disinterest more often than love or hate combined.
No.. I don't doubt it at all. That's statement with as much power behind it as saying "The sky is blue".
If humans hated more than they loved this world would be far more corrupt than it is. Big words don't necessarily mean big meaning. It's poetic enough, sure; but there's nothing fascinating behind it. I'm not talking bad about the book either, I think it's excellent.. I just have a hard time appreciating something when down to it's true definition it's taught me nothing.
everything starting with my sadistical ex girlfriend. they lead to believe they really love you then blam there out with another guy! i wish it was like in the 1800's when was severe punishment for that kind of behaviour. well i least i learned a good lesson don't trust anyone! :op
Yes; thati love you more than would be war.
Well, we can easily invalidate this quote using logic. If I can show you any other human characteristic that, when brought into play, causes humans not to love more readily than they hate, then the quote is invalid. It makes a singular exception for selfishness, which may not be enough.
Probably, the quote would be more difficult to invalidate if we (charitably) throw in every human vice we can think of along with selfishness, and THEN try to think of a way to doubt it:
"It is to the credit of the human nature that, except where its many vices are brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates." (modified by me to indicate a more modern awareness)
This is almost a tautology or truism by itself: what we're saying is that, if we throw out all our vices, we're all snuggly. WELL OF COURSE! That's pretty self-evident: the very notion of "our vices" is to capture the things that make us act in a blameworthy manner. Without them, we would have nothing but our essentially good traits.
Of course, there is (or was) a debate, grounded in religious belief at the time, as to whether the human spirit is inherently good or inherently evil. Puritans believed it was inherently evil, and we had to make a conscious effort to try and fight back that evil. So to get rid of our vices, for a Puritan, would be like getting rid of our very essence.
On the other hai love you more thannd, many popular modern views, both theistic and atheistic, grant humanity an inherently good nature, with a few vices thrown in to make life challenging. If you follow that school of thought, then our vices could potentially be removed, in whole or in part, if we take the proper measures. Then we would have no basis for hate.
In the end, I think I have to disagree with the way the quote is postured: it is trying to make it sound like the fact that humans have both virtues and vices is a credit to us, when in fact, I think most would agree that the very fact we have to acknowledge our vices implies something blameworthy about us, rather than something praiseworthy.
I suppose it's still love but many are willing to AV儿劣* each other over, and do readily, for the love of money. But I think that's where the selfishness part of the quote denies this.
The quote is basically saying humans love more than they hate and all bad deeds are caused by selfishness. So perhaps you could make a case that the only exception is mental illness. The actions of the mentally ill can't always be judged by the standards that govern the rest of us. While crimes committed by the insane can be considered unsavory, they themselves take no moral blame. But would someone free from morality be fully human?
create your own hoodieHow to create your own hoodie?
I don't know about you but I'm tired of walking around with the same hoodie as everyone else. So I've decided to make my own but I'm not entirely sure how. So if I buy the hoodie and have an idea for the design I want on it... how do I get it on? Iron ons usually wear off and don't work right. Any ideas?
Thanks a bunch.
hi, me again. i answered one of your questions a few days ago about the sweater which by the way isnt as cheaply made as i had presumed. the print on the front is cheap, that could eascreate your own hoodieily be done using silkscreen printing. what isn't so cheap is the blend of material that was used for the sweater and the cut which looked to be pretty unique. if it were a hundred percent cotton then yeah it would be a lot cheaper.
depending where you are located you might be able to find a place that can do silkscreen printing nearby. to take your design to the next level you could integrate embroidery which could be costly depending what you want done. there are a number of things you could do, socreate your own hoodieme of it more costly than others and other things are just hard to come by like studs - i can never find studs anywhere. get creative, use different methods, use your imagination or keep it basic/simple.
i would check ebay for a cheap plain sweater and go from there. there might be some high schools or colleges nearby with students willing to do the work. someone in your family might even know how to embroider and you don't even know it. utilize the skills of others.
Thanks a bunch.
hi, me again. i answered one of your questions a few days ago about the sweater which by the way isnt as cheaply made as i had presumed. the print on the front is cheap, that could eascreate your own hoodieily be done using silkscreen printing. what isn't so cheap is the blend of material that was used for the sweater and the cut which looked to be pretty unique. if it were a hundred percent cotton then yeah it would be a lot cheaper.
depending where you are located you might be able to find a place that can do silkscreen printing nearby. to take your design to the next level you could integrate embroidery which could be costly depending what you want done. there are a number of things you could do, socreate your own hoodieme of it more costly than others and other things are just hard to come by like studs - i can never find studs anywhere. get creative, use different methods, use your imagination or keep it basic/simple.
i would check ebay for a cheap plain sweater and go from there. there might be some high schools or colleges nearby with students willing to do the work. someone in your family might even know how to embroider and you don't even know it. utilize the skills of others.
dogpile pantsIs There Anywhere I Can Find Dogpile Pants?
I've lived in Carlsbad CA for about six months now, And I can't find a single store that sells band shirts of good skinny jeans. There was a store back in Longdogpile pants Beach that sold Dogpile brand stretch jeans and band shirts like Rudimentary Peni and Subhumans, But I haven't found any here yet. Any stores or suggestions wdogpile pantsould be much appreciated.
is this what ur looking for?
What are dogpile pants?
You should try Hot Topic. I think they sell them there.
Uhhhh idk?
is this what ur looking for?
What are dogpile pants?
You should try Hot Topic. I think they sell them there.
Uhhhh idk?
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